- I am thinking about ending my life. What do I do now?
- Talk to someone now. In the US call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline), free and available 24 hours a day; elsewhere, your local emergency number. If you are in immediate danger, call emergency services or go to the nearest emergency room. Tell someone you trust as well — a family member, a friend, your pastor — and see a doctor or a counselor: the pain that makes death look like the only way out can be treated, and asking for help is not a lack of faith.
- Do people who die by suicide go to hell?
- The Bible does not say so. It records a few suicides — Saul (1 Samuel 31), Ahithophel (2 Samuel 17), Judas (Matthew 27) — without declaring anyone’s eternal fate because of how they died; in Judas’ case, the weight of the text falls on the betrayal (Matthew 26:24). The only sin Jesus called unforgivable is blasphemy against the Holy Spirit (Matthew 12:31-32), and salvation comes by grace, not by a final act (Ephesians 2:8-9). The opposite idea grew out of later traditions; today the Catholic Church teaches not to despair of the salvation of those who have taken their own lives, and many evangelical churches leave that judgment with God, who knows the heart. None of this makes suicide a way out: life is a gift, and there is help.
- Is it a sin or a lack of faith to want to die?
- Feeling this is not a sin, and it does not make you someone without faith. Moses (Numbers 11:15), Elijah (1 Kings 19:4) and Jonah (Jonah 4:3) asked to die, Job cursed the day he was born, Paul says he despaired even of life (2 Corinthians 1:8), and Psalm 88 is a whole prayer prayed in the dark — and God answered with care, not condemnation. But that desire is a sign of pain too heavy to carry alone, often of depression, which is an illness and can be treated: it calls for help now, not silence.
- I lost someone to suicide. Is there hope?
- There is. Guilt, anger and unanswered questions are part of this grief, and you do not have to resolve them alone. The person you love is not defined by their last moment: they are in the hands of God, who knows what no one else saw, and Paul reminds us that not even death separates those who are in Christ from the love of God (Romans 8:38-39). Look for support — your church, a counselor, a suicide loss support group — and the 988 Lifeline also listens to those who have lost someone.